Any thoughts, wishes of comfort, memories of Justin, and so on are welcomed and encouraged to be left here for those who love Justin deeply to read and share. Please click on the comment button below this message to do so. If you are wishing to do more, Justin's wife, Nicole, has set up a foundation in his name and will be accepting donations. Please feel free to email for any further questions at: family.bluth@gmail.com. Thank you all for the love, support, and prayers that have been offered at this great time of need.
With our deepest love and appreciation,
The Bluth Family
Justin and Nicole Bluth Family
Celyn
Tate
Parker
Layton
25 comments:
We saw Justin and Nicole about a year ago at Rubio's. They thought it would be their last chance to have a date before their baby arrived. Nicole was sweet and smiling and uncomfortably pregnant. Justin was attentive and thoughtful to Nicole, and we took note of what a great husband and father her was. That's the greatest compliment that could be paid to anyone. Justin had a gentle spirit and was a genuine, kind person. We're so glad we knew him!
Much love to all of you. You've been in our prayers and thoughts constantly these last few days,
Mike and Ronda Epperson
We are grateful to have an opportunity to share with you just a few things we have observed about Justin. He was in our ward and he would have a kind or thoughtful comment to make as we passed in the hall. He was truly nice! My 21 year old daughter babysat for them once and she said she remembers him standing with Nicole, just smiling at her. She said, "I could just tell he really loves her." He told the boys to, "Be good while we are gone." By the look on his face you knew that he didn't feel that he need to remind them, because he knew they would be good. When they got home he asked how the boys were and she truthfully replied, "Really good!" He was happy and so proud of his boys. Justin has a kind and good spirit. He undeniably loved his wife Nicole and four boys. It showed in his actions! From our observations they were his most important work.
We are praying for the Lord's richest blessings to be with you. We know by our experience that in times of specific need that Justin's spirit will be close to you to help you along your journey.
We love you,
Curt and Monica Shumway
Danica, Chelsea, Caitlin, Emmalee, Elizabeth and Faith
Justin was our home teacher in Bella Vista Ward in Gilbert for a year. He was faitful in coming every month. He assisted my husband in giving me priesthood blessings and served our family in other ways. I remember him always smiling and be happy, never in a hurry when he visited. We also worked in the nursery with his son Celyn who is the same age as our son Brent. Nicole and Justin babysat Brent a few times too. Their family truly exemplified Christ like love by their example and the way they lived their lives. Justin was one of a handful of faithul home teachers we have had in our 10 year marriage. We will always remember him as being kind and caring. Amy Hamilton
Nicole has been busy with Primary pretty much since the Bluths moved into our ward, and I will forever remember Justin holding his little boys in the hallway. Holding their hand if they were old enough to stand, carrying them if they were only an infant. That man LOVED his little boys.
Someday those little boys will grow to be men of honor, I have no doubt. Their faces reflect their father, as do their dispositions. He was a good man.
Much love,
Valerie King
Justin was obviously a fabulous father. When Nicole and I were in nursery together he was always helping her with one of the boys. Whether it was Parker because he was a little sick, or Layton because he was brand new. Sometimes it was both boys. That is a small memory, but one that will always stay with me because a Loving and Helpful Dad is indicative of the kind of Man he is.
Love,
Bethany Johansen :)
Bob and I got to spend a wonderful evening with Justin and Nicole this past month, reminiscing on missions and all things Chinese. Justin served his mission in Canada, Mandarin-speaking. The Chans came, too, and we had so much fun talking about food, culture, language, as well as our lives now. Justin had continued his Mandarin studies at BYU and had studied in Nanjing for a few months one year, so we got to look at pictures and his memorabilia. I wrote in my journal how grateful I was for that evening! It was lovely to get to know them better and to share a love for Chinese things with them. We may have even intrigued Nicole a bit, although I don't think she was ready to pack off for China anytime soon. :)
Love,
Carol Scott
I will always remember Justin as such an easy person to talk to. He had such an unassuming way about him, you couldn’t help but feel at ease in conversation. I will miss him and his always cheerful attitude, but like everyone he met, I won’t forget him.
Aaron Scroggin
All I can say is that he was the epitome of kindness. Every time I saw him I thought of a kind, loving person. I am pretty sure he was a great father that loved his boys but I never saw it first hand. What I did see was a heart willing to help anyone when they needed. I always thought of him as a kind person without any hate. One that I would like to emulate.
Dave Broekman
Celyn, Tate, Parker, Layton and Nicole,
A wonderful memory we have of your dad, Justin, is when the Gurney’s garage caught fire (not a good memory!) in February of 2008 and we helped clean up the mess. Your dad, Ryan and Mike Holdaway were in the garage standing on ladders pulling sheet-rock off the walls breathing in all kinds of yucky stuff and the three of them were almost falling off the ladders because they were laughing and joking until they were almost crying! They were telling jokes, talking and laughing so hard! Your dad was so happy and was so funny. He was such a huge help to the Gurney’s. I will always remember your dad standing in the Gurney’s garage, covered with burned up sheet-rock and dust and soot but with a huge smile on his face!
P.S. Your awesome mom ordered everybody pizza and wings (THANKS Nicole!!!) and those guys devoured that food in literally a matter of minutes in between laughing and working!
Love,
Michael and Lisa Holdaway
I remember seeing Justin on more than one occassion with Parker & Layton, one in each arm, trying to shuffle to the bathroom to change dirty diapers while Nicole taught Primary. I offered to help once, to which he replied, "I've got it covered!" You could tell he really did have it covered. What a great dad! You boys are so lucky to have such a great example to follow. You're all in our prayers!
Love,
Eric & Emily Stewart & Clan
Justin and I were roommates at BYU for several years. One thing I'd like to add to the comments above about Justin is that he was extremely intelligent. In East coast lingo, he was "wicked smart." We marveled at how he was able to pull of excellent scores on tests so easily. Others would have to study twice as long and twice as hard to come close to getting test scores that Justin got. He was just naturally brilliant.
I have hundreds of fun stories I could tell about Justin. But upon learning of his unexpected and tragic passing, perhaps the one quality of Justin that I am most grateful he had, for his sake, was his love of life and his determination to find as much fun and enjoyment as he could in every possible opportunity. I'm so glad he did not spend the last several years of his life making himself miserable by "paying his dues" and trying to work his way up from the bottom of a tall corporate ladder with the elusive promises of happiness in some distant future. For Justin, joy, happiness, enjoyment, and fun were always to be had now. Life is too short. Justin knew that. And I'm so glad that he did.
Nicole, our prayers are with you and the boys, and well as the entire Bluth extended family. To Justin's parents, thank you for raising such an exemplary son. To Nicole and the boys, I know no words can make up for your loss. For what it's worth, I don't believe Justin will ever leave your sides.
-Andrew Ainsworth
Nicole and Boys - I sit here totally lost for words that would comfort at this time. As a father of 4 myself I cannot express to you how much Justin's life as well has his passing has instilled in me a greater desire to love my wife and children. Justin was an example to all fathers and husbands of how we should act, treat and love our families.
Boys I want to repeat what so many have said, your dad was a genuine, loved man full of integrity and love for your mother, and please never forget that. As you grow older know that there are so many people who knew and loved your father and thought the world of him.
You are in our thoughts and prayers. The memory of Justin Bluth stays with us and continues to help improve our lives for the better.
Tim Porter
Nicole and the Bluth family,
I has been my pleasure to know Justin since before he went on his Mission. I first met Justin when he worked with our Biomed guys, and ever since as he worked at our Administration office. The best thing about Justin is his smile. I will miss that more than anything. He just brightened my day everytime he stopped by my office just to say "Hello", and ask how my day was going. He was tender,kind and a very compasionate man. He went above and beyond when he helped me during a very trying time at work. I know he loved his family. He talked about you Nicole and the boys so often that I felt like I knew each one of you. Thank you Dr. Bluth and Connie, for raising such wonderful children. It has been my pleasure to work with several of them. They are all great examples of the both of you. I am grateful to have rub shoulders with Justin and experienced his wonderful spirit.
I am grateful for the gospel and the knowledge of our Heavenly Father and his love for us. I know he will give all of you the strength to cope with this tragedy.
A friend always.
Teena Foote
I can only echo the thoughts and feelings that have been shared. Justin was one of the best men I have ever known and my biggest regret is that I never had a chance to tell him that personally. But I want his boys to know it.
Justin and I grew up together and even though we were second cousins, we were closer than that. I remember scout campouts, lunch runs in high school, and hanging out together. I can't remember a single disparaging remark he ever uttered.
Justin was always an example to me, something that has only intensified since his passing. There is nothing that can fill the void he left, but I want Nicole and the boys to know how much they are loved and what a reunion it will be on the other side of the veil.
I have 4 daughters myself and this experience has helped me to re-focus my life on what is most important. I will never forget Justin Bluth and the legacy he left.
I spoke with Justin about 2 weeks ago about a project at the Gilbert Historical Society-he was genuinely concerned and a person of action-he made some things happen that were just like him..As friends and neighbors of the Bluths for 18 years-Justin would wave,smile and was always was a gentleman.
Our thoughts ,prayers and love go out to his wife and children and to his loving mom and dad.
Dr.Skip and Stacia Watters
Justin was a man of true integrity and sincerity. AS I sit here thinking about his life and his legacy, I only wish that we could get more of him. It's selfish I know, but Justin was a person that could say anything with a smile, and it meant the world to me because I knew he truly meant it.
Growing up, even though we were second cousins...WHATEVER! We were family. Justin was indeed an example to me of kindness, service, and he made the best out of life. He was an honorable man.
My heart goes out to sweet Nicole. You are stronger than you know and that is why you two were so good for each other.
Boys, you will follow in your daddy's footsteps because that is your nature as it was Justin's and his Father.
Our greatest gift is life eternal, and I look forward to the greeting he's preparing for us hereafter. You guys' always did have great get togethers! :)
Love you all,
Jana Critchfield Yeager
Nicole and Bluth Family!
I just wanted to tell you how much I love your family and if you need help with anything i am more then happy to help! babysitter, house cleaner , or meal maker! I didn't know Justin that well but just knowing the Bluth family I know that he was a great man just like his father!
Lacey Sanchez
While I've known Justin most of his life, my most tender and recent memory of him was the night of Bridgette's reception. Celyn had found Grandma's rose bushes made for some pretty neat kindling which, when met with a little flame from the candles on the table, made an even bigger flame! Before the back yard and all those beautiful rose bushes disappeared in a puff of smoke, Justin came to the rescue, whisked the boys off into the house, and proceeded to give them baths and get them ready for bed. But it was the scene I happened on while passing the bathroom that will forever be engrained -- Justin on his knees with three little boys in the tub, each bragging about what they "added" to the water, and Justin's eyes looking at me and rolling to the back of his head. With a grin that matched his mischevious boys', he attempted an apology, to which I replied, "Justin, would you really expect anything less from YOUR boys?" We both laughed and then the splashing continued. What a fun daddy, a true example of genuine delight in family and the little moments that make forever memories that must last a lifetime. While he will be sorely missed, his legacy lives on in those four little "Justins," who have a wonderful mother to help them remember that legacy, and teach them how to return home together as a forever family. We love you! "Aunt" Jody Seamons
I haven't seen Justin for many years, but have many great memories from our formative high school days. I'll share just a couple of fun memories, because the time spent with Justin was always fun.
First, he and I decided that asking girls to our Junior Prom was a waste of time and money and so instead we asked a water ski. Yes, we took some of the money we would have spent on flowers, dinner, etc.. and bought a water ski. And while everyone else brought their date to the lake to go water skiing the day of Prom, so did we. Only at the end of the date we didn't have to worry about the awkward goodnight kiss. And I still have that water ski today, and now every time I get to use it I will remember the great man that still owns the other half of it.
Second, Justin and I were lucky enough to go to Washington DC between our Junior and Senior years, with a Young Leadership group. This was a geat trip. I remember staying up late one night talking to Justin's Jewish roomate from New York, and we had a great discussion about religion and the differences between the Jewish faith and ours. And I remember Justin's knowledge of the gospel and the power of his testimony. On another note I also remember almost getting caught at The Hard Rock Cafe, which was off limits to our group. It is a long story. But we decided to go anyway and got very close to getting caught. I can still remember how fast my heart was beating when we snuck out the "employee only" door and made a run for it. And as I remember it, it was all Justin's idea, both the going and the escape route.
The last thing that I will always be thankful to Justin for is a ride home to AZ from BYU, Thanksgiving break during our sophmore year. He had an extra seat available and allowed me to bring along a girl from my BYU ward, who needed a ride to AZ for the holiday. This girl later became my eternal companion.
Justin was always willing to help any way he could and was a great friend. He will be missed but not forgotten.
Zach Bradshaw
Justin and I, along w/ the other 3 “Bills” (Andrew, Brett, and Travis) were room-mates and brothers all the way through college and beyond. Years of college and missions have left too many memories to stitch to paper, but they are times that I’ll never forget. At the risk of sounding cliché, Justin was a guy who was always happy…always. Whether we were climbing Y Mountain w/ thrift store skis, or heading to the Orem roller rink for Disco Night, Justin was always hyped about whatever he was doing.
I remember dorm-wide “Quiet Hour” on the 7th floor of V Hall at Deseret Towers: 311 blaring while we sprinted through the hallways in our skivvies, chucking socks stuffed w/ tennis balls at each other. Yup, we were in the honor roll dorm. I remember the green monster in the townhouse after our missions: late-night hours spent trying to bank the hacky-sack off the wall around the chimney w/o hitting the ground. More than one broken toe attempting that maneuver… (By the way, you’re all welcome for finding that de-luxe apartment for our triumphant “RM” year at BYU.) I remember driving to the dentist’s office with Andrew to pick up Justin and Brett while they came down off their nitrous high after getting their wisdom teeth pulled. We were all pre-mission then, so neither of them was bilingual yet, but they were chatting each other up in some language that wasn’t English. Drew and I were stumped. I remember the short-lived midnight shift that Travis and Justin worked on campus. We’d all hang out all night, then when the rest of us were heading off to bed, those two would have to haul themselves up to work. Definitely some poor decision-making there… I remember Justin’s stab at civil disobedience: his white Camry had become a favorite target of the parking police who slapped wheel boots on it with alarming regularity. Our late-night retaliatory raids included such tactics as bolt-cutters for “unauthorized removals” of the boot, and lug wrenches to just take the booted tire off and install the spare. Thoreau himself would have been proud. I remember stopping at Arby’s on the way up a canyon for an overnight mountain bike camping trip. I don’t know what was funnier: Travis making himself sick by eating 4 roast beef sandwiches BEFORE we got to the trailhead (“But they’re only ninety-nine cents!”), or Justin being woken up that night by a porcupine nosing around in his empty chili can. I remember going to the pool in the Richards Building and seeing the “flying squirrel” for the first time. Justin was fearless off that high dive. I don’t think I ever held one all the way to the water. I remember Justin’s introduction of Scott’s Fung to the townhouse. I know we needed another room-mate…but that was another episode of poor decision-making. (Do you remember K.C. chewing the Fung out for the chicken sacrifices in the fridge?) I remember seeing Ned’s Atomic Dustbin at DV8 our freshman year. Once we got into the club, Justin went to buy a t-shirt and left Brett alone just long enough to get hit on by a drunk girl who spilled beer on his shirt. Brett and I were together at the time, but I was powerless to stop the drunken onslaught. Awesome.
The common thread that runs through all these memories is Justin’s lust for life. Wherever we were, whatever we were doing – Justin was excited about it. His education, his family, his friends, his hobbies – he gave each of these things the full measure of his devotion. His excitement for the various facets of his life allowed him to excel at each without neglecting any. We who knew him were continually impressed with that ability, and we are still thankful for the example he set for us. Justin – we love you, brother.
Adam Merrill
This past week had left me a changed person in so many ways. It has made me reflect and want to be a better person.
We are so gratful to have had the opportunity to have had Justin and Nicole as our friends. We had so much fun when we were with them. They were some of our first friends right after we got married. Justin loved to have parties and he went all out. From every kid toy imaginable, awesome food and laughs. You always felt welcomed and loved when you went to the Bluths house. What a kind and generous person he always was. We will miss Justin terribly. But, we are here for you Nicole and all those sweet boys.
Our thoughts and prayer are with you. Nicole,you are amazing and have such a strong testimony. What an example of faith you have set. We love you and are only a phone call away.
In the years I had known Justin, I can't ever remember a time where he had anything negative to say about anybody. There was not a mean bone in his body. He had a gentle demeanor and you could'nt help but feel comfortable around him. He was a great example to many and he will truly be missed.
Chad Towe
Nicole, it's been a long time since we've seen each other, and I'm sorry I never got the chance to get to know Justin. My heart goes out to you and your boys. This blog and the comments on this page say it all – what a beautiful, loving family.
My husband and I are living in Hong Kong with our 16-month-old son, and I've been relishing every minute with them these last couple of days, since my mom forwarded Justin's obituary. I can't imagine what you're going through right now, but I'm glad you're surrounded by people who love you. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
I have no doubt you're still that same sweet, brilliant, funny and charming girl I knew all the way back in 4th grade (maybe minus the glasses!), and I hope someday we can get our boys together for a playdate...
Know that you are loved, my friend.
Pam (Rambo) Golafshar
Dear Nichole, Connie and President Bluth,
We would like to express our heartfelt gratitude and Love for your great family and the inspiration all of you have provided. Even during this most difficult trial in your lives after losing Justin and during his funeral, we felt immensely inspired by you and the strength you displayed. We have been inspired by your faith, by your example, and by your understanding of The Atonement exemplified by the way you have been able to deal with Justin’s untimely passing.
Nichole – Your words of the heart showed understanding and faith beyond your years.
I will always be grateful for the opportunity I had, as your Bishop, to perform the ring ceremony for you and Justin. It will always be a sweet memory for me.
Connie and Lothaire – My family and I are so appreciative of your love and friendship for these many decades. You have helped us raise our children. You have given of your time and testimony to the Barney family in many ways throughout the years and the entire family is better for having associated with the Bluths. We could not have a better example than your family in being steadfast, faithful, forgiving, encouraging and loving.
The entire Barney family appreciates your wonderful association and friendship and hope the Lord will continue to bless you and strengthen you.
With all our love as your friends and neighbors,
Dennis and Ann Barney
I met Justin in Utah. he was friends with my roommates from mongolia. He was so kind and would do anything for his friends. He could always make you happy if you were having a bad day. He was a great man, and I am blessed to have known him. My sympathy goes out to his wife Nicole and his 4 boys. you are in my thoughts and prayers, and I know that you will be fine and be blessed.
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